4 Promises of Forgiveness

1. I will not dwell on this incident.

2. I will not bring up this incident again and use it against you.

3. I will not talk to others about this incident.

4. I will not let this incident stand between us or hinder our personal relationship.

The Seven A’s of Confession
From Peacemaker Ministries – Ken Sande

Admit specifically (the sin)
Avoid qualifiers (excuses/minimize, but, if, maybe) Address all involved
Acknowledge the hurt (pain your sin caused) Ask forgiveness
Accept the consequences
Alter your behavior (make a plan for change)

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